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Tarzan is a very fickle pickle!

24 Mar

“Fickle”? Who made up this word! It’s a funny word. Fickle rhymes with Pickle, Tickle, and Smickle. My point? Zippo, Nadda, just a funny word and relevant to this blog post!

It is defined from Marriam-Webster dictionary as:

Fick·le
adj \ˈfi-kəl\
Definition of FICKLE
: marked by lack of steadfastness, constancy, or stability : given to erratic changeableness
— fick·le·ness noun
— fick·ly \ˈfi-k(ə-)lē\ adverb

So how in the world does Tarzan become a Fickle Pickle and why?

One thing you know about Tarzan is he is a very, very sensitive person. He likes to live in the forest, among non-humans because in his early upbringing he was made fun of. He learned that at an early age he was better off acting like a fickle pickle. So then after, Tarzan, Lord of the Jungle, has lived his life pushing others away like a fickle pickle!

So for any of you potential Jane’s out there, you must must realize it is not personal. However, anytime anyone has ever said “it is not personal” to me, IT USUALLY ALWAYS IS! Of course it is personal! All of life is personal!

“Every action and decision you make in life, effects 10 other people” ~ Earth Zebra

People who are fickle pickles are very selfish souls. They feed off of others coming towards them, and think nothing of when they swing back into the forest without even a goodbye. But be sure, they did not swing too far, as they like to listen and see if they can hear any tearful, “where are you Tarzan” calling out towards them! This is their revenge for Little Suzy rejecting them when he asked her to the 6’th grade dance.

A forest is a funny place. For most of us, we live out in open spaces. We say hello to our neighbors, we stay in tune with world events. We open ourselves up to ridicule as all our goodies are seen by everyone. People who live in forests are the same boys and girls who take their ball home just so none of the other boys and girls can play. A forest is a great place to keep secrets. To hide your thoughts, to keep other off balance as a new visitor to the forest eyes adjust to the darkness. A forest is a place where there are loud sounds of ferocious scary beasts!

But the thing about those roars is they are really Tarzan hiding behind a tree trying to scare you so that you think his “forest” is the best forest of all. Nice try Tarzan!

Many “Tarzan’s” live life with the appearances of a normal life. However, it is their heart and what they “give of themselves” to others which make them “Tarzan’s” that live in the Forest. Thus, you don’t know for sure if someone is a forest liver at first glance. Wait to hear a roar in the darkness to be sure!

It is sad that Tarzan is a fickle pickle, for all he desires is a hug. All he desires is to be accepted. All Tarzan wants is little Suzy to say yes, just once!

“To live life in a Forest is to live life hiding from life” ~ Earth Zebra

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What is Love?

23 Mar

It is funny how “it just happens”. Not saying that I’m in love mind you but once in a while, a very rare while, someone comes along that you just so perfectly connect with on a deeper level than your average person.

It is never planned or forced, and it isn’t not something you need to think about, it just “is”!

Love is a feeling within your chest that you can physically feel. It warms your entire body and puts a smile on your face. Suddenly everything becomes very clear and in place.

You carry with you the thought of this other person always. They have touched your soul and are holding hands with your soul. Like children happily playing within your body, the day is a pleasure and wonderful time.

When in love you feel complete. You feel as though everything has just begun and is new. Love gives you power. The power to accomplish and do anything.

“Love is the most powerful drug known to man” ~ Earth Zebra

Utopia Next Stop!

7 Feb

We all go through life searching for that special place where we fit in. This is a place where decisions come easily, people are happy to see you, life unfolds in a way in that no effort is required. This place is called Utopia.

I moved to my current “home” thinking it might be this magical place. I came with wide eyes, a spring in my step, and open arms and mind to everything and everyone that might cross my path. Well, it is not.

Living here has not been a train wreck by any means but it certainly hasn’t lived up to all the hopes either!

As the saying goes, ‘A Rolling Stone Shall Gather No Moss’. Well, I’ve lived a pretty interesting life thus far, as I have “rolled” from one adventure to another and maybe a little moss wouldn’t be so bad. The difficult thing about moss is there are so many kinds. A guy has to be careful and take his time choosing the right moss that is best suited to grow on him.

I know Utopia exists. I know there is a moss patch that is all that I dream it will be. I know kindness, friendship, love, exists on my awaiting moss patch. I know I will find it. Perhaps it is time to set aside all the fears of what I potentially have to lose, and grasp firmly all that I have to offer and can be. There comes a time in everyone’s life when they spread their wings and fly.

Being your future, being all that you dream you can be, being “YOU” is Utopia. It is time for me to be me! Time to roll!

“It is when you give everything up of your past, in that you find your future” ~ Earth Zebra

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25 Dec

Finding Ones SELF Among so Many Distractions! “Aliens” Control Us All!

10 Dec

How do we do it? Finding our true selves! Being true to who we are. Being honest to our soul so that it can thrive and grow to all we are capable of!

After-all, we each have so many distractions in finding ourselves, truth, reality, friends, family, love, and what it is that we each are in life! Who ARE you?

First of all we have our parents influence in who “we should be”, or “what we should become”! We have big brothers who are athletes or amazingly creative that we should mimic. We have sisters who are incredibly smart, or beautiful and we are suppose to duplicate and match. We go to church and see our spiritual leaders who are the ones we look up to and try our best to be like. Our social leaders of the community have achieved what we all are suppose to aspire to be.

We see on television so many confusing “measuring marks” of what society tells us what, and who are the most popular. Don’t we all want to be popular, liked, and “respected”?! Yes, we all do. It is a natural desire to want to be accepted and part of “the cool kids”. It is natural to want to be good at something and have fans that recognize our achievements!

On television is the Barbara Walters special, (December of 2010) and she is interviewing Oprah Winfrey. We watch in awe of how amazing these women are. We look in awe and see what we want to be as a people. We look in awe at these smart, talented, people who are the things that greatness is measured by in all human beings. They are two women of incredible success and stature. Not just women but “people” that all cultures can look up to and try to be like.

Or are they all these things? I wonder!

I think of these types of people as Aliens. They are the ugliest of all people. The dirtiest and most harmful of all creatures to the human species in modern day times! Creatures in a movie which eat smaller mammals for their own survival. They relish in their own ability to be smaller mammal eating idols.

Their Alien words are harmful to all us and should be avoided at all costs. Their images and messages are broadcast over our televisions as a controlling “numbing” message. Their messages are intentionally to be that which each of us desire but are to not realize and obtain! Their messages and images are intentionally out of reach for all of us so that they can maintain their position of being thought of as “special”.

Why is it that each of us listen so much to the Aliens numbing message? It is numbing in that we each continue to strive to be like the Aliens when it is not possible. Have you ever seen a walking wind up toy which continue to head butt the wall in front of it? It continues to try and move forward over and over but will never get past the wall. This is what the Aliens want of all of us. Their messages wind us up, pointing us towards the wall, and when we get there we don’t know any better than to change direction. We don’t realize the messages the Aliens tell us are for no other purpose but to keep giving us unreachable standards so that we are so busy trying to reach those standards that we never really realize our own individual greatness in just being normal.

Aliens cast upon all of us their spells of unobtainable things in life. They show us what is not possible and in-so keep us powerless and a slave through our constant “head butting the wall” attempt to be like them.

It is time for us all to unite and not look at the Aliens anymore! It is time to not listen to the Aliens ever again! It is time to ignore the Aliens making them meaningless and obsolete! The Aliens food supply is our needing them. By not needing them, not listening to them, not wanting to be them, they will starve to death and disappear.

The greatest desire in life for all of us, is that we all so, so , so, desire to just wake up and just be happy! We wake up and just desire that our loved ones are healthy and safe! We wake up and do our very best to support our families! We are a diverse species. Some, wake up and do a line of coke, or do a trick, or dread having to see someone at the office who we don’t want to see! We wake up homeless, or with a mortgage we can’t pay, or son in jail, or just having been abused in some way by another! Good things and bad things…”We” are life.

“We”…..”all of us”….ARE the purest of what nature is and meant to be! “We” are the measuring mark of how life is to be lived. “We” have real, achievable, attainable personality traits, bodies, and successes. The Aliens do not!

“Be happy and excel in being yourself and greatness will find you” ~ Earth Zebra

WikiLeaks Fallout Exposes World Hypocrisy while USA Bullies the World!

9 Dec

I never thought I’d see the day, in this “advanced” time of civilized mankind, where it would be allowed for censorship to be acceptable by so many on so many levels. It is shameful!

In the last 2 weeks, WikiLeaks has published for all to see, communications between US Government diplomats and other world leaders for a many years time span.

For everyone to see what is being said about other world leaders, countries, and diplomats, comments which were supposed to have been confidential and not for everyone’s eyes. Communications revealing the truths as to how the USA Government approaches the rest of the world, thinks of the world, and the discrepancies of what the US Government tells “everyone else” versus what is the real truth.

I include all of us, and myself in the “everyone else” category.

And now the US Government (not it’s citizens) is pissed and is doing everything it possibly can to threaten “everyone” into not reading it. Well, I’m afraid the horses are already out of the barn “Big Brother”!

Some injustices of the last week:

* In the last week, the US Government (not it’s citizens) has successfully managed to get the WikiLeaks website off the internet. What happened to the internet being a place where free speech is rule #1 and untouchable?

* The US Govenment (not it’s citizens) has successfully bullied PayPal into stopping its acceptance of money on behalf of WikiLeaks.

* The US Government (not it’s citizens) has successfully bullied Sweden into charging the creator of the WikiLeaks website, Julian Assange, with a non-existent rape! And why?…..So they can have more time to drum up some bogus charges of their own and have this man, who is not a US citizen, and does not live in the US, brought to the USA and locked up forever!

Do you know how incredibly scary this is where one government has the power to reach out into any part of the world and “snatch” any person they want, try them, and basically hang them on the nearest tree!

This type of power should not be had by anyone in the year 2011! Why do the citizens of the world sit quietly like sheep as the wolf selects the sheep he wants to eat?

* The US Government (not it’s citizens) has bullied the British judge into denying bail for Mr Assange.

* The US Government (not it’s citizens) has issued threats to all US Government employees that if they read these documents their jobs are in jeopardy! They have threatened it’s own military that if they are not to read any of the documents.

* The US Government (not it’s citizens) has bullied MasterCard and Visa to not accept any payment to WikiLeaks.

What do you see in this whole picture?

You see the big bad bully who’s dirty little secrets and lies were just revealed to everyone.

You just saw the curtain of the wizard just being pulled back revealing he is a liar and fake, only to protect his own power and control over all of us!

It is a shameful day to be associated with the American Government! It is a wonderful day to be an American…..I think?.

“Our governments, do not define who we are individually, as a nation, or it’ s people, we do” ~ Earth Zebra

Is the “One” we choose to be with “Meant to Be”?

29 Nov

I wonder if “the one” we end up with in each of our individual seeking’s for love is a choice or “meant to be” and will happen no matter what.

I read about people who tell stories of “love at first site” and they just knew that the person in front of them was to be the one they would spend the rest of their life with. How did they know? Was it that they simply were attracted to this person and they have dozens of others…..”mis-fires”….caucuses…. on the highway of past attractions.

Is it just that the one we end up with turned out to be the one so it is easy to say, “I knew at first site”. How many other “at first site’s” did these people also have?

Today, I met a girl who could possibly be “the one”. Incredibly grace, elegance, and on the surface all the things a King would seek for his Queen. I even told her about this blog, so to a certain extent does that mean I’m writing this to her on some deep sub-conscious level? Does this mean that I think she is the one, or a candidate? Where does the official line get drawn and distinguished between our natural “hope for good things” and some sort of god guided “meant to be” scenario?

If you were to drive on the highway of the past for any of us, of all the possible “the one’s” you’d need a tank to drive over all the dust remains to make the highway passable on the road to today. I think this is true for all of us. What is the difference between all those “the ones” and any of today’s “the ones”?

I think that in our journey in life people are always optimistic towards the future. It is in our genes to expect a plentiful harvest, a positive outcome, and reaching our dreams and goals. I think this also rings true for finding love.

I’d like to think that “meant to be” does exist. I’d like to believe that every person has another person they are born to find and travel through life together with. But, why is it not this way for other mammals and animals created by god? Why is it that we should believe that the human experience is special to none other? How do you explain divorce when if asked, most of those getting divorced thought they had found “the one” in the beginning too?

Is it possible that our desire as a society and individuals to be “special” because we exist at the top of the food chain and are arguably the smartest animal in the universe figure into our need for those we choose to “give ourselves too” to be somehow chosen by a higher power? Is this especially heightened to Americans as the current dominant super power of all countries and feeling entitled to being special is of less an importance for other cultures and countries?

Well, as someone who still hopes someday to see Santa Claus climbing down the chimney, the Tooth Fairy leaving the money under my future children pillows when they lose a tooth, the Easter Bunny, Mother Nature, The Great Pumpkin, Unicorns, and Angel’s granting wishes every time a bell is heard, I will also continue to believe that there is just one person out there for each of us and if it is meant to be, then it will be.

And until I meet that person, the road bumps created by the ones that did not make the cut make the ride an interesting one!

“Good luck to you all, it is meant to be!” ~ Earth Zebra