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WHY DO PEOPLE HATE BLACK PEOPLE

9 May

Fear. Protecting the ant hill.

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1.) People of a certain older age were brought up and taught by their parents that the black man was to be feared. Not so much black women. Fear results in acts of hate. It’s primal self preservation. Keep those down that are a perceived threat. Rally others around that same belief and the ant hill will survive the threat. Even if it is not a real threat, it is perceived.

2.) Middle aged people grew up in a media culture and social messaging that black people are drug dealers, commit crimes, and live in ghetto’s in the city. Both city and rural areas fear those which are different from themselves. Fear again.

3.) Younger people again see black people glorified by society in music videos, lyrics to songs, and an “urban coolness” that is based on drugs, alcohol, being poor, hating police, and wanting white women. Few black people have pushed back on this as a whole segment of society united.

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Lebron James is a prime example that hate will only result in more hate. He is racist against white people and full of hate. He is feared as a dangerous black man who hates white people. The NAACP is a racist organization. Black Lives Matter is a racist organization. You can’t replace hate with new hate and expect a different result.

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Black people by a large majority support the Democrat party. The most stifling of any party to keep black people dependent on the government. It’s a brainwashing. They don’t want black people to succeed because they will lose votes. The Dems need black people dependent on them to win elections. It’s all about power so they can line their pockets with Gold. President Trump has done more for black people than the last 4 Presidents combined. Yet, black people still believe he is racist and against them. Why? The media and the Democrats tell black people this. Lebron James tells people this same message. It’s an orchestrated effort to control the black vote. Keep all the sheep in the pen together, and they will all Baaaaa at the same time.

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Black people have been beaten down so much over the years that they have given up. And those who have not given up, find the system is “rigged” against them and their advancement. Corporate America is mostly white. Customers for those companies and the buyers are mostly white. If faced with the choice of hiring a black salesman or a white salesman, the majority will choose the white salesman so not risk coming across customers who have adverse upbringings towards black people and lose sales.

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Black women are deserting their black men. A huge number of black women are now only dating white men. Their primal instincts to find a protector, and someone who can care for them, and their offspring financially have led them, perhaps unconsciously, towards white guys.

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You put all this into the soup bowl and mix it up. What do you have? You have fear, hate, distrust, and protection of the ant hill on both sides. Fear leads to hate, hate leads to more fear.

There are enough mix babies being born in the last 15 years that it will take another 15 years or so for it to change to a place when you will not ask, “why do white people hate black people” anymore. But, if when that time comes, one skin color does something to cause fear from the other, it will start all over again.

All things heal with time. Or do they!

Is the “One” we choose to be with “Meant to Be”?

29 Nov

I wonder if “the one” we end up with in each of our individual seeking’s for love is a choice or “meant to be” and will happen no matter what.

I read about people who tell stories of “love at first site” and they just knew that the person in front of them was to be the one they would spend the rest of their life with. How did they know? Was it that they simply were attracted to this person and they have dozens of others…..”mis-fires”….caucuses…. on the highway of past attractions.

Is it just that the one we end up with turned out to be the one so it is easy to say, “I knew at first site”. How many other “at first site’s” did these people also have?

Today, I met a girl who could possibly be “the one”. Incredibly grace, elegance, and on the surface all the things a King would seek for his Queen. I even told her about this blog, so to a certain extent does that mean I’m writing this to her on some deep sub-conscious level? Does this mean that I think she is the one, or a candidate? Where does the official line get drawn and distinguished between our natural “hope for good things” and some sort of god guided “meant to be” scenario?

If you were to drive on the highway of the past for any of us, of all the possible “the one’s” you’d need a tank to drive over all the dust remains to make the highway passable on the road to today. I think this is true for all of us. What is the difference between all those “the ones” and any of today’s “the ones”?

I think that in our journey in life people are always optimistic towards the future. It is in our genes to expect a plentiful harvest, a positive outcome, and reaching our dreams and goals. I think this also rings true for finding love.

I’d like to think that “meant to be” does exist. I’d like to believe that every person has another person they are born to find and travel through life together with. But, why is it not this way for other mammals and animals created by god? Why is it that we should believe that the human experience is special to none other? How do you explain divorce when if asked, most of those getting divorced thought they had found “the one” in the beginning too?

Is it possible that our desire as a society and individuals to be “special” because we exist at the top of the food chain and are arguably the smartest animal in the universe figure into our need for those we choose to “give ourselves too” to be somehow chosen by a higher power? Is this especially heightened to Americans as the current dominant super power of all countries and feeling entitled to being special is of less an importance for other cultures and countries?

Well, as someone who still hopes someday to see Santa Claus climbing down the chimney, the Tooth Fairy leaving the money under my future children pillows when they lose a tooth, the Easter Bunny, Mother Nature, The Great Pumpkin, Unicorns, and Angel’s granting wishes every time a bell is heard, I will also continue to believe that there is just one person out there for each of us and if it is meant to be, then it will be.

And until I meet that person, the road bumps created by the ones that did not make the cut make the ride an interesting one!

“Good luck to you all, it is meant to be!” ~ Earth Zebra